Sonja Lyubomirsky

Such a pleasure to be here.

Such a great show, right?

So these are real couples in New York.

They kind of forget that they're on camera and they have major problems.

They're all very diverse.

And what I love about the show, it actually makes me feel very smart because you hear them talking and it's like the wife is saying, oh, you never bring me to the gym.

You don't do this.

You don't do this.

Or the husband saying, oh, you haven't done this for me.

And then you see like they're fighting, fighting over here on this level.

But really underneath it, it seems so obvious that they don't feel loved, that like no matter what the guy does.

she still doesn't feel loved.

No matter what she does, he doesn't feel loved.

But I really feel like at the heart of a lot of problems in relationships or even breakups, it's a lack of feeling loved.

No matter what the other person does, you still don't feel loved by them.

It was really funny.

So he had just bought this really brand new high-end, like the highest-end Tesla.

And so the whole ride to the restaurant we were going to, he was showing off the car.

And it was actually really cool.

Like he's showing off all these features of the Tesla.