Stacy London
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125 appearances
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first heard Apr 2025
last heard Apr 2025
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Das ist wahrscheinlich für eine Therapie-Session. Aber das ist Teil der Grund, warum ich nicht Dinge tue, die ich nicht gut bin. Ich wollte nicht gelacht werden. And I don't know why I had such a sensitivity to that. But I've really lost a lot of that. I really feel like that's a skin I'm in the process of shedding. Well, I am back in therapy. I think that's really important.
And I'm actually making different choices. Instead of what my first reaction is, I give the opposite reaction. Or I give the opposite answer. So if you say to me, Stacey, come with me in Ira. Come visit us in California for a long weekend. We're hanging out. We'll go to the farmer's market, whatever. And I'm like, oh my God, you know, is the ticket going to be really expensive?
And oh, like, do I have to behave a certain way around Tam and Ira? You know, like all of these things would run through my head. Now, if you said that to me, not... Wow. Und ich versuche nur, mehr Zeit mit mehr Leuten zu verbringen. Ich bin sehr gut beim Isolieren.
Ich bin sehr gut beim Stehen zu Hause mit meinem Hund und beim Zuschauen, beim Bingen jeder Serie und beim Nicht-Ein-Ein-Ein und beim Nicht-Ein-Ein-Ein-Ein-Ein-Ein-Ein. I think I still have a little bit of that residual pandemic kind of social anxiety, but I'm really fighting it now for the first time instead of being like, it's okay, it's okay, give yourself a break, give yourself a break.
Yes, but self-care is... That's another word that I think has just been completely bastardized. And that self-care is not about being indulgent. It is about true care. Your health and your happiness are absolutely intertwined. And I'm finding that I haven't let myself be happy, really happy in a long time. And I'm working on it. I don't think happy is a constant state, right?
If you're shooting for happy, you're going to miss because it's a moving target. But I do feel like you can get to a place in your life where you're pretty content. Life is hard.
Anybody who read M. Scott Peck and knows The Road Less Traveled or any self-help book since knows that we come into this world thinking or somehow think that we're entitled to this perfect life or that's what we've been fed as the American dream or any dream, right? But life is hard. And I think if we come at it from that aspect, then everything else feels like a win.
If you know what you're doing, being alive, getting up every day, breathing, brushing your teeth, taking a shower, getting dressed and going out is hard. It's just hard. Facing everything you have to face in life is hard. Financially, with romance, with family, everything is just meant for. Ja, genau. And I wouldn't say, the only thing I've ever really been addicted to is food.
But I wouldn't say that, I did this on a podcast called Soberness. I was talking about the fact that there are crutches that we need sometimes. And like now, look, sometimes that's food. And I'm like, I need chocolate right now. Or it's martini. Or it's going dancing. Or it's buying myself new pants. Yeah. I call them crutches.
I say that they're temporary and they're necessary when you're going through something hard. That is indulgent, right? That's a way of being good to yourself that's indulgent. Self care is making sure that your mental, emotional, psychological and physical health
ist unter deiner Kontrolle und dass du deine Seite der Straße sauber hältst, egal was du in der Welt erlebst, dass du mit deinen Werten, deinen Worten und deinen Aktionen verabschiedet bist. Und ich habe nicht immer verabschiedet, aber ich bin es jetzt.
Or that invention isn't something that you can continue to do your whole life. You don't have to re, just because I was here before, doesn't mean I'm not inventing an entirely new version of myself. Every seven years I'm a new version anyway. And I love the idea of that, because I really believe that this... You're right. Everything is connected.
Everything is about self-expression and identity and self-awareness and self-esteem and self-confidence. All these things are things that I have cared about my whole life. I've cared about helping instill them in other people because I've been trying to find a way to instill them in myself. Und das ist eine lebenslange Reise.
Ich denke einfach, dass ich mich jetzt besser fühle, wie ich jetzt bin, als ich es jemals hatte. Und ich denke, dass viele der Wege, in denen ich mich in der Leben verabschiedet habe, wirklich war, weil ich versucht habe, andere Menschen zu lieben. Ich wollte mich in jemanden bewegen oder mich in jemanden, der ich nicht bin, um jemanden anderen glücklich zu machen.
um meinen Boss glücklich zu machen oder meinen Partner glücklich zu machen oder meine Familie glücklich zu machen.
Das ist richtig. Und das ist der Grund, warum, wenn wir über unglückliche Frauen sprechen, über die viele Fahrer in einer letzten Runde gesprochen haben, war sie so, ich hasse den Fakt, dass wir nie sagen, dass Männer unglücklich sind. Wir sagen, dass Frauen unglücklich sind. And listen, I think there are a lot of pain in the ass bitchy women. Sorry, there are.
And they're not people that I want to associate myself with. But at the same time, I want women to help each other to work together. And I want women to really come from a place of there's room enough for everybody here.
Es gibt genug Raum, um alle zu scheinen, weil, schau dir das an, du bist aus Billionen und Billionen und Billionen von Atomen errichtet, in einem Weg, der wie niemand anderes in den 8 Billionen Menschen auf diesem Planeten ist. Du hast etwas, das du nur durch Existenz erreichst.
Exactly. And I think that's a good deal. Das haben wir zu sehen. Wir sollten darüber sprechen, weil die Idee, was wir denken, wie wir aussehen müssen, Teil davon ist kulturell und Teil davon ist sozial und kontextuell. Und was ich damit meine, ist, dass du dich dressen kannst, wie du dich dressen willst. Ich bin nicht die Stacey von 2003. Du wirst das tragen. Right.
But I think that most people think of me that way. They're a little afraid. So who's the Stacey today? Well, the Stacey today is more like, do you feel the way you want to feel in what you're wearing?
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