Stephan Speaks

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It has everything to do with him trying to navigate this situation because of what he's either been advised or been through or whatever. So, that's why the key is if that same woman says to him listen, I'm not hearing from you as much as I want to. If you're going to date me I need to have constant you know, consistent communication we need to talk every single day.

It has everything to do with him trying to navigate this situation because of what he's either been advised or been through or whatever. So, that's why the key is if that same woman says to him listen, I'm not hearing from you as much as I want to. If you're going to date me I need to have constant you know, consistent communication we need to talk every single day.

Now, if he's really serious about her he'll call her every day. You give him the green light he's going to do it, you see. And if he's not serious about her then he will probably come up with excuses he'll dance around it whatever the case may be. But now you can run with that statement because it's been made clear to him.

Now, if he's really serious about her he'll call her every day. You give him the green light he's going to do it, you see. And if he's not serious about her then he will probably come up with excuses he'll dance around it whatever the case may be. But now you can run with that statement because it's been made clear to him.

But there's so many underlying things going on and so many reasons especially when you consider the advice being given on the internet nowadays, all right. Like there is literally advice that tells people ignore someone if you want them more or want them to want you more, okay.

But there's so many underlying things going on and so many reasons especially when you consider the advice being given on the internet nowadays, all right. Like there is literally advice that tells people ignore someone if you want them more or want them to want you more, okay.

Like literally when you understand what people are being fed then you start to realize it's not as simple as if they want to they would. No, talk to them first.

Like literally when you understand what people are being fed then you start to realize it's not as simple as if they want to they would. No, talk to them first.

And then I always say the way to determine how serious someone is about you is not in seeing what they do on their own is seeing how they handle your expression of concerns and feelings, all right.

And then I always say the way to determine how serious someone is about you is not in seeing what they do on their own is seeing how they handle your expression of concerns and feelings, all right.

That's what's going to show you how not just how serious they are about you but how mature They are and they're emotionally ready to be in a relationship because someone who cannot hear you out is not ready for a real relationship, all right. But if they can sit, talk to you, listen, not dismiss and now make positive changes, all right, then it's all good.

That's what's going to show you how not just how serious they are about you but how mature They are and they're emotionally ready to be in a relationship because someone who cannot hear you out is not ready for a real relationship, all right. But if they can sit, talk to you, listen, not dismiss and now make positive changes, all right, then it's all good.

It is. But this is the unfortunate, harsh reality. because that portion is so small and because we overlook those types of issues, well, that's why we have so much unhealthy relationships. That's why we have such a high divorce rate. And I always tell people, people love to harbor on the divorce rate as an argument not to get married.

It is. But this is the unfortunate, harsh reality. because that portion is so small and because we overlook those types of issues, well, that's why we have so much unhealthy relationships. That's why we have such a high divorce rate. And I always tell people, people love to harbor on the divorce rate as an argument not to get married.

And I'm like, hold up, if we could quantify the breakup rate, it would probably make the divorce rate look like child's play, all right. People break up way more and so much trauma, so much hurt So, the reality is that yes, if we took this approach that said someone needs to be emotionally mature before we can enter in a relationship with them, relationships will plummet.

And I'm like, hold up, if we could quantify the breakup rate, it would probably make the divorce rate look like child's play, all right. People break up way more and so much trauma, so much hurt So, the reality is that yes, if we took this approach that said someone needs to be emotionally mature before we can enter in a relationship with them, relationships will plummet.

There will be a lot less relationships. However, two things would happen from that. There would be more healthy relationships and people would start to realize this is an unacceptable trait that they're carrying with them.

There will be a lot less relationships. However, two things would happen from that. There would be more healthy relationships and people would start to realize this is an unacceptable trait that they're carrying with them.