Stephan Speaks

And then it's being solidified by some of your own personal experiences but you may not realize what's contributing to those experiences even coming about.

And then it's being solidified by some of your own personal experiences but you may not realize what's contributing to those experiences even coming about.

Exactly. And I think what we're not realizing as a society is that The reality is there we base our perceptions of the opposite sex on what I call the desirables, all right. That top 20% of men or women who get the most attention, who have the most opportunities. And it kind of goes back to that belief of how great power can corrupt, all right.

Exactly. And I think what we're not realizing as a society is that The reality is there we base our perceptions of the opposite sex on what I call the desirables, all right. That top 20% of men or women who get the most attention, who have the most opportunities. And it kind of goes back to that belief of how great power can corrupt, all right.

So, even the good nice guy if he now becomes a man who has all kinds of beautiful women coming after him, he has all this access. Not all but there are many who will start to fall into behaviors that they wouldn't have before. Who will start to become more of a womanizer, who will start to enjoy all this access that they have, right.

So, even the good nice guy if he now becomes a man who has all kinds of beautiful women coming after him, he has all this access. Not all but there are many who will start to fall into behaviors that they wouldn't have before. Who will start to become more of a womanizer, who will start to enjoy all this access that they have, right.

And the reality is that when we hear these stories this is not a story of the average man who just wants a relationship, looking for love, is genuine, maybe he doesn't get all the attention, maybe he's not the most desirable guy, but he's a good guy. but that's not where we're going to put our attention.

And the reality is that when we hear these stories this is not a story of the average man who just wants a relationship, looking for love, is genuine, maybe he doesn't get all the attention, maybe he's not the most desirable guy, but he's a good guy. but that's not where we're going to put our attention.

And it's the same thing with women when you hear men on the internet say women just want money, women just want money. Now, granted women value financial stability in men most, okay. And I think that most men should strive from some level of stability. However, there are tons of women dating broke men, all right.

And it's the same thing with women when you hear men on the internet say women just want money, women just want money. Now, granted women value financial stability in men most, okay. And I think that most men should strive from some level of stability. However, there are tons of women dating broke men, all right.

There are tons of women who that is not their number one priority, it's a desire but they want to be loved, they want quality time, they want these other things. But again, if it's not being said by the audience that the men fixate so much on, they don't hear those voices.

There are tons of women who that is not their number one priority, it's a desire but they want to be loved, they want quality time, they want these other things. But again, if it's not being said by the audience that the men fixate so much on, they don't hear those voices.

They just focus on the women who again, and I'm using the word desirables not because I'm determining what's desirable, I'm just laying out the people who get the most attention, who tend to get more attention for whatever reason right or wrong that's what happens in life. And so, we got to realize that they do not represent the majority.

They just focus on the women who again, and I'm using the word desirables not because I'm determining what's desirable, I'm just laying out the people who get the most attention, who tend to get more attention for whatever reason right or wrong that's what happens in life. And so, we got to realize that they do not represent the majority.

And we have to ask ourselves sometimes are we focusing too much on the wrong group of people when we're trying to come to an understanding of the opposite sex.

And we have to ask ourselves sometimes are we focusing too much on the wrong group of people when we're trying to come to an understanding of the opposite sex.

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