Stephan Speaks

That doesn't mean you qualify for a relationship. And someone can love you or you can love someone. But if certain things aren't in place to have a successful relationship it still won't work. So, we have to understand that a breakup doesn't automatically mean someone doesn't love you nor does someone want to be in a relationship with you mean that they love you.

That doesn't mean you qualify for a relationship. And someone can love you or you can love someone. But if certain things aren't in place to have a successful relationship it still won't work. So, we have to understand that a breakup doesn't automatically mean someone doesn't love you nor does someone want to be in a relationship with you mean that they love you.

Because a man or woman who wants to use you could want to be in a relationship with you could want to marry you it has nothing to do with love it's two separate things, all right. Now, with that understood what we have to understand when we're going through a breakup is One, all is not lost.

Because a man or woman who wants to use you could want to be in a relationship with you could want to marry you it has nothing to do with love it's two separate things, all right. Now, with that understood what we have to understand when we're going through a breakup is One, all is not lost.

Like, we got to start there because it's so easy to feel like our whole world is now crumbling before our eyes. We're devastated how are we going to get past this? And it's like listen, all is not lost. There's been billions of people who have gone through a breakup and who have survived. But who all felt like in that moment they don't know how they're going to continue, okay.

Like, we got to start there because it's so easy to feel like our whole world is now crumbling before our eyes. We're devastated how are we going to get past this? And it's like listen, all is not lost. There's been billions of people who have gone through a breakup and who have survived. But who all felt like in that moment they don't know how they're going to continue, okay.

We have to remember this is just a moment. Life is about moments, all right. If you let the moment get the best of you it can throw everything off. But when you can conquer that moment you're on the right track you can keep moving forward in a good direction. So, keep that in perspective but of course that's hard to do when you're still going through the breakup.

We have to remember this is just a moment. Life is about moments, all right. If you let the moment get the best of you it can throw everything off. But when you can conquer that moment you're on the right track you can keep moving forward in a good direction. So, keep that in perspective but of course that's hard to do when you're still going through the breakup.

I also think going back to the point that I made is stop questioning if they love you, okay. Because that I think is what weighs on some people the most. It's like I gave them all this time and energy all these years and they didn't even love me it's like no, no, no, no. they could have still loved you, but there's another issue that exists here.

I also think going back to the point that I made is stop questioning if they love you, okay. Because that I think is what weighs on some people the most. It's like I gave them all this time and energy all these years and they didn't even love me it's like no, no, no, no. they could have still loved you, but there's another issue that exists here.

And what people... This goes back to unfortunately, I understand because I'm a coach and I've spoken to thousands of people and I've seen millions of situations. How much different issues play into why people do what they do, okay.

And what people... This goes back to unfortunately, I understand because I'm a coach and I've spoken to thousands of people and I've seen millions of situations. How much different issues play into why people do what they do, okay.

But everyone is so used to the very surface level perspective of well, okay, if for example, if this person breaks up and they jump into a new relationship where clearly they never loved you. That's not true. Some people do that because they love you so much and they can't deal with the pain and they figure I need someone to distract me from this. So, they don't love the new person

But everyone is so used to the very surface level perspective of well, okay, if for example, if this person breaks up and they jump into a new relationship where clearly they never loved you. That's not true. Some people do that because they love you so much and they can't deal with the pain and they figure I need someone to distract me from this. So, they don't love the new person

Okay, now granted could it be the other way around that they never loved you? That is possible, that is possible. But it isn't always what you think it is, all right. So, trying to dwell on and question if they love me it's not healthy because one, we cannot prove or disprove it. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.

Okay, now granted could it be the other way around that they never loved you? That is possible, that is possible. But it isn't always what you think it is, all right. So, trying to dwell on and question if they love me it's not healthy because one, we cannot prove or disprove it. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.

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