Stephanie R. Yates-Anyabwile

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1,242 appearances 110 recordings 4 series first heard Jun 2022 last heard yesterday

Stephanie R. Yates-Anyabwile’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.

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Definitely agree.

I think...

And it's hard for me to engage in like more surface level conversations because as a therapist, I go right to it.

But I do think it's interesting how you said that bad things almost always do happen.

That's an interesting understanding of the world and life.

I think that to me, that means that your people pleasing is probably a result of some sort of trauma experience.

if bad things always happen?

What does that mean?

What I hear you say is that basically you're people-pleased to avoid the humiliation of hearing no or...

Asking for what you need and a person basically telling you you're not important enough for that accommodation.

Like when we go back to the example of being in the Uber, if you tell that Uber driver that you're cold and goes, oh, well, I'm hot and keeps it on.

Now it's like I put myself out there.

I admitted I was cold and he didn't care.

He didn't make the accommodation.

So maybe it's easier to not experience that rejection than it is to take the chance of getting what you want.

Oh, okay.

Interesting perspective.

Yeah.

I could see that look.

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