Stephanie R. Yates-Anyabwile
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first heard Jun 2022
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And I think anxiety works both ways because alternatively, you could be thinking...
If I tell him about the fact that I'm cold, then this will happen, this will happen.
Anxiety is just looking at every worst case scenario almost, you know?
So I think even if you were super anxious, it could be the same situation.
So how did the opinions of others impact your relationship with yourself?
Yeah, I've always cared way too much what people think.
I actually remember I was writing with my grandma back in 2019, and she always struck me as someone who just, she was the founder of a church, you know, small church, lots of opinions, especially once my grandfather passed away and she was like the head of the ministry.
And so I was like, Grandma, how do you deal with that?
The opinions of so many people.
And she was like, Stephanie, they're just people.
That made no sense to me.
That still makes no sense to me.
Because I was just like, I guess in a way, we kind of put people on this pedestal, which is so interesting because...
As a human being myself, my opinions are so flawed and they change, but I look at other people's views or opinions of me and give them so much weight and look at them as though they can't change or that they're correct.
And so sometimes I just reflect on that conversation to remind myself, like, these are just people.
Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't, but...
the opinion of people has always mattered a lot to me.
I think we're talking about birth order.
I'm the oldest.
And I think sometimes with the oldest parents, that's when they put their best foot forward.
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