Stephanie R. Yates-Anyabwile
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first heard Jun 2022
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Like, they want to raise the next, you know, top athlete or the next big politician, whatever.
So they put a lot more energy sometimes to that oldest child than they do with the subsequent children.
And so there's this pressure to...
And so I know for me, even as an adult, I still crave that I'm proud of you from my dad, you know, and he gives it to me, but I hear it more from other people than from him.
And I always every time somebody is like, oh, my gosh, your dad is so proud of you.
I'm always thinking, oh, I wish he told me that.
But I know he is.
But I think that's where it started for me is just feeling like you want that parental approval, then expands to the authorities of teachers and administration at your school.
Then it's your boss.
Then it's everybody.
Everybody has an opinion.
And as the older we get, I think the more confident we get that our opinions are right.
And if someone has a negative opinion, especially being in the online space, it is hard to just say,
That's one person's opinion.
I love what you said about
you have to give similar weight to the positive opinions, just like you do the negative.
And that's something that I think when you're online for years, you kind of, you come to a point because I'm like, everybody, it could be the exact same content and all the initial comments are so positive.
And then one person says something and it takes a turn, you know, and a lot of people kind of follow the crowd, whether it's positive or negative.
So yeah, you can even look at the numbers of it really.
That's a good point.
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