Stephanie R. Yates-Anyabwile

I'm always thinking, oh, I wish he told me that.

But I know he is.

But I think that's where it started for me is just feeling like you want that parental approval, then expands to the authorities of teachers and administration at your school.

Then it's your boss.

Then it's everybody.

Everybody has an opinion.

And as the older we get, I think the more confident we get that our opinions are right.

And if someone has a negative opinion, especially being in the online space, it is hard to just say,

That's one person's opinion.

I love what you said about

you have to give similar weight to the positive opinions, just like you do the negative.

And that's something that I think when you're online for years, you kind of, you come to a point because I'm like, everybody, it could be the exact same content and all the initial comments are so positive.

And then one person says something and it takes a turn, you know, and a lot of people kind of follow the crowd, whether it's positive or negative.

So yeah, you can even look at the numbers of it really.

That's a good point.

Would you say that most of your comments are more negative or more positive?

Yeah.

I know.

It's terrifying.

Yeah.