Steven Zuber

The thing is, I guess I've never asked about what was the flow state.

I always check in how

things are going and how they went and stuff but i've never asked you know was that a lose yourself kind of experience or you know were you in your head a lot or something maybe i should ask that but you know it just speculating if i had to guess and generalize i imagine part of it is the effort to maintain the sex for longer because you know like it or not it's it's not over you know exactly but it it's it's a good shelling point when uh when a guy is uh

Why am I being so flippant, so dodgy about this?

When a guy orgasms, they hit their refractory period and all that stuff kind of stops working for a minimum of a few minutes.

And it's at least a break from that current act.

So there's kind of a pressure to stay focused long enough to maintain that for longer.

So maybe that's part of it.

You can't ever take all the pressure off because – I mean the thing is like if it becomes a goal with a success state, then there's like something to focus on, right?

Right.

But if you're just there vibing, then it's just about the moment.

Although like most things that involve anything of the whatever contemplative or meditative –

Yeah, they're an organization that teaches real life rationality techniques and not just whatever rational stuff like finding the sequences, but broader strokes for just winning at life.

How did Matt put it during the world's first ever in person class on Sunday?

Was it systematized winning?

But that's no, that's too common.

Yeah.

The term was success engineering.

Thank you.

Yes, I loved that.