Stuart Shanker

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1,736 appearances 3 recordings 1 series first heard Oct 2022 last heard 3 Jul

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So when you cuddle your child, when you hug your little kid.

Uh what you're doing is activating I oxytocin and that oxytocin the reason why the hug calms down the child.

is because you are triggering the release.

Of oxytocin.

Which turns off the stress hormones.

Str turns off the stress neurons.

They're called corticotropin uh hormones.

Okay, here's the key.

Uh what Debbie asked me is to address the problem primarily in teens.

When the kid becomes a teen

they turn to their peers instead of their parents for co-regulation.

But if all your peers are

Also over stress, which is the case today, what's happening?

Is that instead of getting that boost of oxytocin from your from your friend

you're getting more stress.

They are co-stressing instead of co-regulating.

So what do they need?

Well, in this situation, first and foremost, they need us.

They need us.

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