Stuart Shanker
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1,736 appearances
3 recordings
1 series
first heard Oct 2022
last heard 3 Jul
Stuart Shanker’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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And so I'm listening to all this, and let's suppose that I'm like Debbie.
Debbie, you can see that Debbie's very grounded.
So you think, well, what I gotta do is I gotta show Uncle Joe that what he's saying is nuts.
It's irrational.
Which it is.
It's the red-brained, the limbic system that's going off.
But it's no different with a teenager.
A teenager who is shouting or a child.
And so
You know, if I'm a parent of a little guy who's having, let's say, a temper tantrum.
Well, the last thing I'm gonna do to my two year old is say, you know, son, this is quite irrational.
And and and and you need to understand that there are consequences, whatever.
Okay, so we soothe the two year old.
We know it, but the reality is that when my teenager does it, he has regressed to the level of a two year old.
And what he needs is we talk about very complicated system in the brain.
He needs the arousal.
The hyper arousal in the lower parts of his brain to be soothed.
He literally doesn't hear, he doesn't process what I'm saying.
Uncle Joe doesn't process if he's hyper aroused.
So what Uncle Joe really needs from me if how if we're gonna have a nice Thanksgiving.
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