Terry Real

Yeah.

And she said, he's wonderful.

Let me tell you about Andrew and what's going to happen.

And she, like, read me through the whole thing.

And little, I'm not going to get into it, but my fears about, oh, well, we're going to disagree about this.

No, you're not.

Let me tell you how it is.

And after I was done talking to her, I was chilled.

That's a blessing.

What men lose when we don't, when we're not in touch with our vulnerabilities is we lose the capacity to ask somebody to help them.

But it's ask someone, not demand.

And it's also reciprocal.

It's not, you know, then Bea started talking about her relationship and I started supporting her.

And that's a relationship.

Yes, I want man to come out of the straitjacket and have feelings.

I want us to be whole and own our human vulnerabilities.

But in a context.

in a context in which we're connected to other people and we're neither cut off from them nor are we imposing on them, but we've learned the art, and it's virtually lost, of how to be with, simply how to be with, how to ask them to be with us and how to reciprocate and be with them.

You know,

So many women are angry at us.