Terry Real

I mean, I deal.

I'm the medic in the gender war.

You know, I deal.

My beat are couples on the brink of divorce that no one else has been able to help.

That's my specialty.

And it's like...

We just don't know.

I have a saying, and I may get into trouble, but it's a broad generalization, but clinically, I like to say an angry woman is a woman who doesn't feel heard.

And so many men are like, what is going on here?

My marriage isn't that bad, but if you could just get her off my back, I don't understand what the problem is.

And we're hit with an angry – well, I'll double back on this.

But we're hit with an angry woman and we either push back or get defensive or we withdraw.

I have to lead men by the hand.

Let me teach you something.

Tell me why you're angry.

Tell me what you would like.

Let me give you, unless it's jumping off the bridge, I have a saying, I know how you can disarm an angry woman in five seconds, 50% of the time, which is better than you're doing.

Okay, how do you do it?

Give her what she wants.

Let me ask you, what's going on with you