Terry Real

We're both pretty screwed up in this culture.

And the tough news for a lot of women, I have eight million sayings, and one of them is, you don't have the right to get mad about not getting what you never asked for.

Could you repeat that?

You don't have the right to get mad about not getting what you never asked for.

And that's women stepping out of their traditional role.

What do you mean?

I have to tell them?

Like Prince Charming should just know if I have to tell him it doesn't count.

I mean, I literally hear that.

And, you know, what I say is, well, gals, Cinderella's dead.

Prince Charming probably just came out of rehab.

And I hate to tell you, but I know it's not romantic, but if you want something from your guy, you're going to have to roll up your sleeves and fight for it.

You're going to have to assert what you want and then teach them what you want.

There are three steps of getting more of what you want in a relationship, and it's particularly true for women because they're the ones carrying the dissatisfaction.

One, dare to rock the boat.

Honey, this is really important to me.

I don't think you've been listening.

You better pay attention.

Two, once the guy is on board, okay, what do I need?

Teach him.