Terry Real

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1,522 appearances 2 recordings 2 series first heard May 2025 last heard 29 Dec

Terry Real’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.

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This is a good example of relational skill.

If I want distance, let me take care of my partner.

So she'll give me distance.

If I don't take care of you, I'm going to get chased.

It's in my interest to behave with skill.

So I say to you, when we're not flooded, let's have a contract.

I get flooded.

We don't like it when I get flooded.

I want to take a break.

Here's what it looks like.

15, 20 minutes, and then I'm back.

If I'm not in control, I'll text you.

I'll call you and say, I need another.

I'll negotiate with you.

But I'm not going to leave you.

I'm not going to be irresponsible.

It's not unilateral, and it's not forever.

I will be back.

What do you need in order to be calm enough to let me go?

And nine out of ten times, it's like, this contract is fine.

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