Terry Real
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Podcast Appearances
And also a request, not a complaint.
I know you love me.
This is what's happening to me.
We're a team.
As a favor to me, would you please?
Humble, subjective, negotiating.
Not, I'm God's gift.
I know how to drive.
You're an idiot.
Take all that energy away.
And then, right, I do love you.
Right, you do get nervous.
You're a fool for getting nervous, but you get nervous.
You're my wife.
Sure, I'll do this for you.
And I use this as an example of learning to speak relationally.
It's not about who's right and who's โ I say the relational answer to who's right and who's wrong is who cares.
How are we as a team going to make this work?
And that's a whole new world.
Are women better at this than men?