The Host
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Is your girlfriend, boyfriend taking up way too much of your mental?
Are they leading you into some really dark places yourself?
And are they just perpetually unhappy?
These are all things you need to ask yourself before you determine it's all cooked.
Because if one of those things gets resolved, there's a good chance it will domino on the rest of all the other things that you've stacked up in your mind to make the problem feel bigger than it is.
And don't get me wrong, every one of those problems...
They're not comfortable problems to have.
They're not easy things to deal with, but they can be dealt with.
And you do not have to be the topic of suffering.
You don't have to be the person that feels like they've been a victim throughout all of that and penting up this frustration because frustration, it bottles up.
And it's kind of like, you know, those water bottles that you would twist them in half and unleash the screw and it would go, you know, and like shoot out.
That's what happens with frustration.
And it can hit somebody, you know.
Our teachers would get mad all the time because we would hit people with those.
But, you know, that can happen and then you're in more of a problem than you initially even wanted to be in.
So be careful and find what the root of the frustration is, man.
For me, a big thing of frustration has been a lack of routine.
I just don't feel like I have any kind of control over the things that I'm doing.
And that is because I just haven't been focused.