Tiff Baira
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160 appearances
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first heard May 2025
last heard May 2025
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Please See Below with Brynn Whitfield · Loading Your Silly Girl Spring With Tiff Baira · 14 May 2025
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You do.
Take a break. Do the solo dating thing. Just take a time out. There's a few of my friends where I'm literally begging them. I'm like, I promise. Because they just go from one relationship to another. They're scared of being single. They're always hanging out with some like weird.
guy that's like a waste of their time and I'll know and I'm like just be I'm like even 12 days I'm not saying 12 weeks just 12 days just be single don't text an ex don't get attention from a man I was like it's gonna suck but like I think the best thing that I learned in my early 30s was like actually I've kind of always been like this I've been okay for being I was always a serial monogamous and I didn't know that I was actually totally fine with being okay and I'm being alone and I'm like I like being alone no again not always but
I definitely don't mind it at all, and I'm very comfortable. I don't know, but be careful now that you're de-thawing, because if you're doing wellness, if you're feeling yourself, you know what happens every time? What? You fall in love. Absolutely not.
The second that you don't want it, literally, I've literally been like, I'm fucking taking what, I'm done, I'm taking a breather, I don't want to date anything, and then it's like next day, I run into the next love of my life.
No man can distract me right now.
It's sharing. You need to be completely for yourself. Because no one will ever complete you. No, no one will ever complete you. They can fill you up, but they can't complete you. Sorry. No, I got it.
No, but I always say, wait, what are we talking about? No, but I think it used to be a narrative. Yeah, yeah, that you need people that, oh, find your better half. Find your other half. Bitch, I'm whole. I'm at the point in my life, and I have been for a few years now, people are like, what are you looking for? And I'm like, I'm very happy. I have my own money. I have friends.
I have a beautiful life. There's not a place you can't go in New York. I don't know the person or this or that. I feel fulfilled. I feel happy with my nieces and who I am as a sister. Company is what I'm doing with my life. Mentally, I know where I'm at. Emotionally, I feel good.
So unless someone's going to come in and be like, your friends better be cooler than mine because I have the coolest friends in the world. You better be doing cooler stuff than me. I just turned down the Monaco Grand Prix. What are you going to bring? I find myself business, bitch. What are you going to bring to the table? And everyone's like, you'd only date titans of industry.
I'm like, yeah, because honestly, these are the guys that have the balls to be like, that aren't threatened and also just can offer me something that like, I wanna be Princess Jasmine, show me a whole new world. Because right now, I've already taken myself around the world and I'm good. So you have to bring, like wow me. I want a man that can like, wow, I've never done that.
or you're doing things that I admire. I don't know, just something.
there's hope it can get better and also you don't need anyone right now to like interrupt your life like you're I don't know you sometimes with some like I I'm a romantic so like heart I take breakups hard so like and I don't want to like mess up what I have like I have so much I don't want anything that's willing to threaten it so I'm at the point where like unless I know I'm not
the point though too I'm definitely not hard launching unless I know I'm gonna like marry your ass I'm just gonna keep quiet about it I'm not hiding you but like unless I know we're really like considering that next step I can't do another we're gonna live together we're gonna break up I'm gonna have to tell my nail person my hair person my eyelash girl the doorman what happened the doorman god that's why I don't live in doorman buildings I love NYC doorman but like
They know all your shit. They know your shit. And then you've got to explain stuff.
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. But then they know everything. They know why. But unless, I just, I'm just not, I've got to have, like, I've got to know you're the one.
I'm single, yeah, I'm single until there's a ring on my finger. Like, sorry.
Another top five. Let's do the top five dating terms of your generation. So mine, for us old farts Gen Z, DTF. Yeah. Ghosting. Did we invent ghosting or did you guys? I think we invented ghosting.
Yeah, yeah, yeah. Well, my generation grew up on Casper, the friendly ghost. I feel like we ghost a lot. DTF, ghosting, Netflix and chill, situationships. And then I wrote this. It's not a dating term, but I've been guilty of saying this before. Like when people say like, I love you or something, I'm like, I can feel myself. I can definitely see myself falling in love with you.
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