Tiffany Aliche

There's not the financial ruin that so many, so many women lose their, partner and their home. That has not been the case for me. But what I did, what my therapist calls the gift of grief is that it gave me perspective of what's really important. You know, like that all of this that you're learning today is not for money's sake. is for meaning's sake.

I hope you remember to put that first and center that. What is the real thing that you're wanting? To what end? Time with family, time with friends, purpose, whatever that is, to center that and to use the money to match to it. Because you might already have enough. I didn't know I had enough. I was like the driver, like, oh babe, we could do this. And he'd be like, well, I like our house.

I hope you remember to put that first and center that. What is the real thing that you're wanting? To what end? Time with family, time with friends, purpose, whatever that is, to center that and to use the money to match to it. Because you might already have enough. I didn't know I had enough. I was like the driver, like, oh babe, we could do this. And he'd be like, well, I like our house.

I hope you remember to put that first and center that. What is the real thing that you're wanting? To what end? Time with family, time with friends, purpose, whatever that is, to center that and to use the money to match to it. Because you might already have enough. I didn't know I had enough. I was like the driver, like, oh babe, we could do this. And he'd be like, well, I like our house.

Oh, we could get this car if I work even harder. And he's like, well, the car's paid off. I like our car. His thing was always, because I have a stepdaughter, Alyssa, he would always be like, well, if Alyssa's good and you're good, I'm good. And it took for him passing away to make me realize that it's enough. I have enough. I spend way more time with family and friends now.

Oh, we could get this car if I work even harder. And he's like, well, the car's paid off. I like our car. His thing was always, because I have a stepdaughter, Alyssa, he would always be like, well, if Alyssa's good and you're good, I'm good. And it took for him passing away to make me realize that it's enough. I have enough. I spend way more time with family and friends now.

Oh, we could get this car if I work even harder. And he's like, well, the car's paid off. I like our car. His thing was always, because I have a stepdaughter, Alyssa, he would always be like, well, if Alyssa's good and you're good, I'm good. And it took for him passing away to make me realize that it's enough. I have enough. I spend way more time with family and friends now.

So all that I work toward is to just bring back to center, to enough. I don't need to collect any more... You know, I'm so happy my book made the New York Times bestsellers list. But honestly, like, what does that even mean? You know, we're here for a flash in the pan. And how will you spend that time? And I hope you spend it like on the things that mean the most. Connectedness, love, purpose.

So all that I work toward is to just bring back to center, to enough. I don't need to collect any more... You know, I'm so happy my book made the New York Times bestsellers list. But honestly, like, what does that even mean? You know, we're here for a flash in the pan. And how will you spend that time? And I hope you spend it like on the things that mean the most. Connectedness, love, purpose.

So all that I work toward is to just bring back to center, to enough. I don't need to collect any more... You know, I'm so happy my book made the New York Times bestsellers list. But honestly, like, what does that even mean? You know, we're here for a flash in the pan. And how will you spend that time? And I hope you spend it like on the things that mean the most. Connectedness, love, purpose.

And they use your money as one of the tools to help you achieve that life.

And they use your money as one of the tools to help you achieve that life.

And they use your money as one of the tools to help you achieve that life.

It sounds like he taught you something that he could not teach you when he was still here. So much, honestly. Like I look back and I'm just like, I mean, candidly, I said this with so many women who are looking for partnership. My husband never made over $60,000 a year. And yet the way he looked after like all of us, I mean, he called my parents more than I did, you know?

It sounds like he taught you something that he could not teach you when he was still here. So much, honestly. Like I look back and I'm just like, I mean, candidly, I said this with so many women who are looking for partnership. My husband never made over $60,000 a year. And yet the way he looked after like all of us, I mean, he called my parents more than I did, you know?

It sounds like he taught you something that he could not teach you when he was still here. So much, honestly. Like I look back and I'm just like, I mean, candidly, I said this with so many women who are looking for partnership. My husband never made over $60,000 a year. And yet the way he looked after like all of us, I mean, he called my parents more than I did, you know?

Like, he would, like, cut my nephew's hair. When he passed away, there was a little old lady down the street who I'd never met who knocked on my door and said, I heard the gentleman here passed away. And I said, yes. She said, you know, I'll really miss him. He used to rake my lawn. And I didn't even know that. But that's how he was, you know?

Like, he would, like, cut my nephew's hair. When he passed away, there was a little old lady down the street who I'd never met who knocked on my door and said, I heard the gentleman here passed away. And I said, yes. She said, you know, I'll really miss him. He used to rake my lawn. And I didn't even know that. But that's how he was, you know?

Like, he would, like, cut my nephew's hair. When he passed away, there was a little old lady down the street who I'd never met who knocked on my door and said, I heard the gentleman here passed away. And I said, yes. She said, you know, I'll really miss him. He used to rake my lawn. And I didn't even know that. But that's how he was, you know?

Sometimes I think that we think more money, like, means that we can do more. But he was testament that that's, you don't need, you can show up fully. So I just... Yeah. He just, I just, it's a lot. The loss is great, but not just mine. You know what I mean?