Tim Miller

She says this to me.

She was like, since that I've been thinking about mortality and legacy and marrying into a family where I'm so proud of who they are.

thinking about my dad and what he could have been.

I don't care about money or different things, but I want my kids and grandkids to look back and be like, she was someone who did the right thing.

I don't need anyone to pat me on the back.

I just want my kids to remember me the right way.

And at the time, I was like, wow.

We were both a little drunk, so I was getting a little emotional.

But at the time, I was like, hmm.

You don't even have a kid.

That's one thing to say if you have a teenager.

She knew she wanted to have a kid.

But, like, that is crazy.

Yeah, it's what women think about.

Yeah, so the men are from Mars, women from Venus thing.

This goes back to Charles Duhigg, emotional conversation versus practical.

But I just was thinking about that for her this week.

And I was just like, she wanted to have this kid so bad.

And this, like, the specter of this, the prospect of this, and wanting to be a good parent.

like weighed on her and that resonated with me at such a level because like it's something that I kept coming back to a lot after January 6th and this time which is like