Todd Adams
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562 appearances
2 recordings
1 series
first heard Jul 2021
last heard Nov 2022
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How can women support?
It's funny because I think a lot of women would be like, oh, just get more vulnerable.
I have been in rooms with men that get vulnerable with their wives and their wives
Um are very surprised and
end up negatively reinforcing that behavior.
They're not used to it.
It scares them.
You know, if your husband is used to never crying and then all of a sudden he gets in this vulnerable place, it could scare the woman in this case.
my invitation for the women out there would be
If your guy is brave enough to be vulnerable to
support him and love him through it and
connect with him in an authentic way because for us guys to do that, it's a really scary place.
We've been taught that this is not what guys do.
So that's that's tricky because us guys, I see I can't speak for us guys.
I sometimes don't like being told what to do.
I don't like somebody telling me, you know, even like in my marriage, I love I'm in a great marriage with my wife Kathy, but sometimes I'll bite my nails when we're like sitting next to each other watching TV.
And she'll like, you know, just gently tap my fingers because it's annoying hearing somebody bite their nails.
And even that, like I we talk about that reactivity, like I'm like there's I don't say this out loud, but there I have a body reaction which is don't tell me what to do.
So this is a very fine line for the women out there that are married to men, because if the guys receive this as their their women are telling them what to do and how to do it, it's very easy to get defensive.
But at the same time.
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