Tom Glaser

so he didn't witness all of the events he witnessed some of the events and did did he so i believe it's a both end i believe he really did know actually

And he had his own trauma as, and my mom had her own trauma, right?

All this, we all come in to life with our own experiences and we do the best we can.

And none of this is blaming.

My parents were wonderful, good people in many, many, many ways.

Good, good people who I loved dearly, right?

Come on, they're my parents.

You only get your parent, right?

They did many good things in the world.

And in these ways, they really, really missed the boat.

They really, really, really screwed up.

So I think my dad actually did know on some level, but did not know.

He didn't have the fortune of being taught himself how to stand up to someone.

He did not know.

I have the privilege of having an education.

I have the great privilege.

Psychotherapy was available when I needed it.

It was barely a thing when my parents needed it.

The most they could do is get some Valium maybe, right?

Exactly.