Tom Pelphrey
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
Because for years it was actor, actor, actor.
And then of course not succeeding.
And even if you were succeeding, it wasn't succeeding enough.
How are you anything but a failure?
If that's the identity, it was just constant failure or less of a failure, more of a failure, whatever.
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No, now I just know I have something to lose.
And I think that's where, when you can start to visualize or see these things, not as concepts, but as the real energy that drives you through your life and decide, do I want to play that?
No, that's not where I want to build my house.
That's not what I'm putting on the altar.
I will play that, but it won't mean identity.
It will not mean my value.
Weirdly, then you can do it with more freedom.