Tori Dunlap

I have a whole section of my book. We have a whole chapter about spending. And one of the just such interesting things ties back to what I was saying before of like the Rolex problem, right? Men can purchase Rolexes and it's like, you're doing well for yourself. Women have the audacity to spend money on anything remotely nice. And it's like, why aren't you donating more? That was a waste of money.

I have a whole section of my book. We have a whole chapter about spending. And one of the just such interesting things ties back to what I was saying before of like the Rolex problem, right? Men can purchase Rolexes and it's like, you're doing well for yourself. Women have the audacity to spend money on anything remotely nice. And it's like, why aren't you donating more? That was a waste of money.

I have a whole section of my book. We have a whole chapter about spending. And one of the just such interesting things ties back to what I was saying before of like the Rolex problem, right? Men can purchase Rolexes and it's like, you're doing well for yourself. Women have the audacity to spend money on anything remotely nice. And it's like, why aren't you donating more? That was a waste of money.

I have a whole section of my book. We have a whole chapter about spending. And one of the just such interesting things ties back to what I was saying before of like the Rolex problem, right? Men can purchase Rolexes and it's like, you're doing well for yourself. Women have the audacity to spend money on anything remotely nice. And it's like, why aren't you donating more? That was a waste of money.

I have a whole section of my book. We have a whole chapter about spending. And one of the just such interesting things ties back to what I was saying before of like the Rolex problem, right? Men can purchase Rolexes and it's like, you're doing well for yourself. Women have the audacity to spend money on anything remotely nice. And it's like, why aren't you donating more? That was a waste of money.

So I very intentionally spent the first chapter before we go into the rest of it, before we go into the how to pay off debt and how to budget, about how to navigate the emotional, psychological sides of money. Even we were talking about before these kind of like narratives, you're told about money. The biggest one is you shouldn't talk about money. That's impolite, right?

So I very intentionally spent the first chapter before we go into the rest of it, before we go into the how to pay off debt and how to budget, about how to navigate the emotional, psychological sides of money. Even we were talking about before these kind of like narratives, you're told about money. The biggest one is you shouldn't talk about money. That's impolite, right?

So I very intentionally spent the first chapter before we go into the rest of it, before we go into the how to pay off debt and how to budget, about how to navigate the emotional, psychological sides of money. Even we were talking about before these kind of like narratives, you're told about money. The biggest one is you shouldn't talk about money. That's impolite, right?

So I very intentionally spent the first chapter before we go into the rest of it, before we go into the how to pay off debt and how to budget, about how to navigate the emotional, psychological sides of money. Even we were talking about before these kind of like narratives, you're told about money. The biggest one is you shouldn't talk about money. That's impolite, right?

So I very intentionally spent the first chapter before we go into the rest of it, before we go into the how to pay off debt and how to budget, about how to navigate the emotional, psychological sides of money. Even we were talking about before these kind of like narratives, you're told about money. The biggest one is you shouldn't talk about money. That's impolite, right?

Specifically, let's talk about how we think of spending in general. The words frivolous spending almost are only attached to women. And what are the things that are deemed frivolous? Things that are innately feminine. Lattes, pedicures, manicures, again, designer bags. The things that we deem frivolous are the things that are innately feminine. They're not NFL season tickets or golf clubs.

Specifically, let's talk about how we think of spending in general. The words frivolous spending almost are only attached to women. And what are the things that are deemed frivolous? Things that are innately feminine. Lattes, pedicures, manicures, again, designer bags. The things that we deem frivolous are the things that are innately feminine. They're not NFL season tickets or golf clubs.

Specifically, let's talk about how we think of spending in general. The words frivolous spending almost are only attached to women. And what are the things that are deemed frivolous? Things that are innately feminine. Lattes, pedicures, manicures, again, designer bags. The things that we deem frivolous are the things that are innately feminine. They're not NFL season tickets or golf clubs.

Specifically, let's talk about how we think of spending in general. The words frivolous spending almost are only attached to women. And what are the things that are deemed frivolous? Things that are innately feminine. Lattes, pedicures, manicures, again, designer bags. The things that we deem frivolous are the things that are innately feminine. They're not NFL season tickets or golf clubs.

Specifically, let's talk about how we think of spending in general. The words frivolous spending almost are only attached to women. And what are the things that are deemed frivolous? Things that are innately feminine. Lattes, pedicures, manicures, again, designer bags. The things that we deem frivolous are the things that are innately feminine. They're not NFL season tickets or golf clubs.

You shouldn't talk about money. That is a psychological narrative meant to keep you underpaid and overworked. Because if you don't talk about money, you don't know that Chad, who was hired two years after you, is making 20% more than you. You don't know that the debt shame you feel, your friend group feels too. You don't know. That's one of those that is so seeped in us.

You shouldn't talk about money. That is a psychological narrative meant to keep you underpaid and overworked. Because if you don't talk about money, you don't know that Chad, who was hired two years after you, is making 20% more than you. You don't know that the debt shame you feel, your friend group feels too. You don't know. That's one of those that is so seeped in us.

You shouldn't talk about money. That is a psychological narrative meant to keep you underpaid and overworked. Because if you don't talk about money, you don't know that Chad, who was hired two years after you, is making 20% more than you. You don't know that the debt shame you feel, your friend group feels too. You don't know. That's one of those that is so seeped in us.

You shouldn't talk about money. That is a psychological narrative meant to keep you underpaid and overworked. Because if you don't talk about money, you don't know that Chad, who was hired two years after you, is making 20% more than you. You don't know that the debt shame you feel, your friend group feels too. You don't know. That's one of those that is so seeped in us.

You shouldn't talk about money. That is a psychological narrative meant to keep you underpaid and overworked. Because if you don't talk about money, you don't know that Chad, who was hired two years after you, is making 20% more than you. You don't know that the debt shame you feel, your friend group feels too. You don't know. That's one of those that is so seeped in us.