Trent Shelton
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I like to call it opportunity costs. What is it gonna cost you not to stick to this boundary? Your future, your peace, maybe you're a mom and you keep saying yes to everybody else and you're frustrated now your kids get that. Maybe you're a dad and you're doing all the things and you can't be the man you need to be for your wife and your family. What is it costing you?
I like to call it opportunity costs. What is it gonna cost you not to stick to this boundary? Your future, your peace, maybe you're a mom and you keep saying yes to everybody else and you're frustrated now your kids get that. Maybe you're a dad and you're doing all the things and you can't be the man you need to be for your wife and your family. What is it costing you?
I like to call it opportunity costs. What is it gonna cost you not to stick to this boundary? Your future, your peace, maybe you're a mom and you keep saying yes to everybody else and you're frustrated now your kids get that. Maybe you're a dad and you're doing all the things and you can't be the man you need to be for your wife and your family. What is it costing you?
Because it's costing you way more than you think. Get clear on that and start there. You tell people how to treat you by what you accept. You tell people how to treat you by what you continuously accept.
Because it's costing you way more than you think. Get clear on that and start there. You tell people how to treat you by what you accept. You tell people how to treat you by what you continuously accept.
Because it's costing you way more than you think. Get clear on that and start there. You tell people how to treat you by what you accept. You tell people how to treat you by what you continuously accept.
I just miss him.
I just miss him.
I just miss him.
You're the best. It was supposed to be, it's a break there, right? Yeah. I thought so. Okay. I was just like, I don't think I'm supposed to say anything there. You can say anything you want, Trent. I wasn't sure.
You're the best. It was supposed to be, it's a break there, right? Yeah. I thought so. Okay. I was just like, I don't think I'm supposed to say anything there. You can say anything you want, Trent. I wasn't sure.
You're the best. It was supposed to be, it's a break there, right? Yeah. I thought so. Okay. I was just like, I don't think I'm supposed to say anything there. You can say anything you want, Trent. I wasn't sure.
You will always be not enough for the wrong people or person. We build relationships these days, I feel like, off of the weakest things. And no wonder when we go through trials and tribulations, things crumble. If you don't demand your worth, the world will tell you what your worth is. The last time I checked, that's not a good price tag and they usually put you on wholesale.
You will always be not enough for the wrong people or person. We build relationships these days, I feel like, off of the weakest things. And no wonder when we go through trials and tribulations, things crumble. If you don't demand your worth, the world will tell you what your worth is. The last time I checked, that's not a good price tag and they usually put you on wholesale.
There's this constant battle, I believe, every single day. for our worth, for our peace, for our sanity, for our happiness, for our joy.
There's this constant battle, I believe, every single day. for our worth, for our peace, for our sanity, for our happiness, for our joy.
I know where that leads. There's no amount of perfection you can give to a person that's committed to misunderstanding you. But once you free yourself from those things and you experience the freedom of fully being yourself, and people fully loving you for yourself, you'll never go back to being someone that you're not to please them.
I know where that leads. There's no amount of perfection you can give to a person that's committed to misunderstanding you. But once you free yourself from those things and you experience the freedom of fully being yourself, and people fully loving you for yourself, you'll never go back to being someone that you're not to please them.
Solitude is necessary. Sometimes you have to learn how to be by yourself so God can show you what being perfectly loved feels like. And what happens if you try to save a person drowning, they're so frantic, they will pull you under and both people will drown. And so you have to trust that. Some people have to learn how to save themselves. I refuse to lose myself trying to change people.
Solitude is necessary. Sometimes you have to learn how to be by yourself so God can show you what being perfectly loved feels like. And what happens if you try to save a person drowning, they're so frantic, they will pull you under and both people will drown. And so you have to trust that. Some people have to learn how to save themselves. I refuse to lose myself trying to change people.