Trent Shelton
👤 PersonAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
So if somebody is following your page, if somebody knows your every move, if somebody is making up a fake profile, right? After you block one profile, that is not hate. That's admiration. They just have pride and ego. So it might be a little bit of jealousy and envy there, but actually... They really support you. And in these days, I would just tell you this.
So if somebody is following your page, if somebody knows your every move, if somebody is making up a fake profile, right? After you block one profile, that is not hate. That's admiration. They just have pride and ego. So it might be a little bit of jealousy and envy there, but actually... They really support you. And in these days, I would just tell you this.
If somebody's hating on you, let it be. Maybe you restrict them on Instagram, but they're adding to your engagement. They're actually helping you. So the more you get out of, oh, this is about me and stop taking it personal. It's a them thing. I've never met a happy hater. Have you? Mm-mm.
If somebody's hating on you, let it be. Maybe you restrict them on Instagram, but they're adding to your engagement. They're actually helping you. So the more you get out of, oh, this is about me and stop taking it personal. It's a them thing. I've never met a happy hater. Have you? Mm-mm.
I've never met somebody who is happy with their life and loving their life, worried about somebody else and what they're doing. So just understand they're paying you attention. At least you're doing something that's worth attention. So keep doing it.
I've never met somebody who is happy with their life and loving their life, worried about somebody else and what they're doing. So just understand they're paying you attention. At least you're doing something that's worth attention. So keep doing it.
I definitely can identify with my introverted self. So it's hard because I'm not the guy that's gonna, you know, I'm not the guy that's gonna start conversation. Like I'm just, I'm laid back, I'm chilled. So I understand. How somebody can feel like, man, if I lose these friends that I know aren't my friends, then I'm not going to have anybody in my life. And I just got to be real.
I definitely can identify with my introverted self. So it's hard because I'm not the guy that's gonna, you know, I'm not the guy that's gonna start conversation. Like I'm just, I'm laid back, I'm chilled. So I understand. How somebody can feel like, man, if I lose these friends that I know aren't my friends, then I'm not going to have anybody in my life. And I just got to be real.
Sometimes the road is lonely. Sometimes I only like to say isolation, but solitude is necessary. Sometimes you have to learn how to be by yourself so God can show you what being perfectly loved feels like. I've learned how to love myself at my rock bottom. When all my friends left, not all of them, because some might be listening, a few was there, but I learned how to love myself.
Sometimes the road is lonely. Sometimes I only like to say isolation, but solitude is necessary. Sometimes you have to learn how to be by yourself so God can show you what being perfectly loved feels like. I've learned how to love myself at my rock bottom. When all my friends left, not all of them, because some might be listening, a few was there, but I learned how to love myself.
When I lost my career, when I lost the beautiful things that surrounded my life, I lost a lot of people that I did things for. And so the thing that I would tell the person listening to this or watching this is, With the people around you, number one, would you trade places with them? Not just financially, but like mindset-wise. Mindsets are contagious.
When I lost my career, when I lost the beautiful things that surrounded my life, I lost a lot of people that I did things for. And so the thing that I would tell the person listening to this or watching this is, With the people around you, number one, would you trade places with them? Not just financially, but like mindset-wise. Mindsets are contagious.
So if I don't want to trade a mindset with you, I don't want to trade a life with you, not talking about the things, but who you are at your core, your core character, if I don't want to trade that with you, why are you around? And everybody around you isn't bad, but everybody around you isn't good for your journey. And so you have to be able to
So if I don't want to trade a mindset with you, I don't want to trade a life with you, not talking about the things, but who you are at your core, your core character, if I don't want to trade that with you, why are you around? And everybody around you isn't bad, but everybody around you isn't good for your journey. And so you have to be able to
I'm gonna say cut people off when they handed you the scissors. So when somebody keeps on disrespecting you, you set boundaries and they disrespect your boundaries over and over and over, they've handed you the scissors. So you might have to cut the relationship off or don't complain about the things you aren't willing to change. And so for me in my life, I had to go up a mountain.
I'm gonna say cut people off when they handed you the scissors. So when somebody keeps on disrespecting you, you set boundaries and they disrespect your boundaries over and over and over, they've handed you the scissors. So you might have to cut the relationship off or don't complain about the things you aren't willing to change. And so for me in my life, I had to go up a mountain.
I was just in, where is that place? I wasn't skiing because I can't ski, Flagstaff. I was in Arizona at what is called Snowbowl. And we were driving up the mountain. At the base of the mountain, it was no snow. So I'm driving like, how are people skiing? But as we got higher, it got colder. snow was there, it got less crowded. And it reminded me of hiking mountains.
I was just in, where is that place? I wasn't skiing because I can't ski, Flagstaff. I was in Arizona at what is called Snowbowl. And we were driving up the mountain. At the base of the mountain, it was no snow. So I'm driving like, how are people skiing? But as we got higher, it got colder. snow was there, it got less crowded. And it reminded me of hiking mountains.
Everybody at the base of the mountain is crowded. But the higher you go, the lonelier it gets. The higher you go, the colder it gets. And so for some of you, it's getting colder in your life because you're going higher.
Everybody at the base of the mountain is crowded. But the higher you go, the lonelier it gets. The higher you go, the colder it gets. And so for some of you, it's getting colder in your life because you're going higher.