Vanessa Marin
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first heard Jul 2026
last heard 17 Sep
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So one of the main dynamics that comes up here is a lot of us stop exploring.
I think like when you learn how to orgasm, and especially if orgasm was ever a challenge for you, you're like so grateful that you finally can that you just focus on what works.
It's like you've you've found that thing, the specific touch, the specific pressure, the rhythm, the speed, the position that you're in.
in and I I think we naturally we like hone in on things.
Get locked in.
Get locked in.
We get really good at it.
We optimize it.
We get efficient.
And that is a really good thing.
Again, like I'm not trying to make anyone feel bad about this at all because it was great to learn how to orgasm.
Again, like
It's great to figure out like what's the most efficient way for me to get there.
And that was up
And that was uh
So before we get any further into the actual like techniques of how we do this, I wanna say that step one is reliability.
Like if you can't get there consistently on your own with a partner in the specific ways that you wanna get there, like that is what you have to focus on first.
Yeah,
Yeah.
So if you're not there yet, like it we're not saying stop listening to this episode.
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