Vanessa Marin
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5,222 appearances
11 recordings
1 series
first heard Jul 2026
last heard 3d ago
Vanessa Marin’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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And this went on even as I started studying to become a sex therapist, starting to do internships and you know, working with practitioners and starting to train.
And
That added this extra layer of shame on top of all of it.
That like I'm pursuing a career in this field.
I want to help people with their sex lives.
And I have this dirty little secret that I can't actually get there with a partner.
And I think it also goes to point out how difficult it is to find genuinely useful resources when you're struggling with orgasm.
Like I read all the freaking Cosmo magazines.
I was doing all the, you know, Google searches in incognito mode.
And then the only stuff that I ever found was the same generic advice that every woman who's ever struggled with her orgasm has always seen.
Like, just relax, just let it happen.
Don't think about it.
And like, but that I'm like, okay, I'm I'm trying those things, but that's not an actual it's like telling somebody who's trying to learn Spanish, like, yeah, just don't think about it.
Just let it happen.
glass of wine and stop thinking about it.
You're like, okay, but what do I do to like do this skill?
So I finally had this really shitty experience of faking with a partner.
I realized in that moment, like I cannot do this anymore.
I I am resolved once and for all to finally figure it out.
So I kind of embarked on this little journey to figure out what I like what I actually could do specifically.
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