Vanessa Marin

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5,222 appearances 11 recordings 1 series first heard Jul 2026 last heard 5d ago

Vanessa Marin’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.

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Recordings per month over the last 12 months — 11 in all, peaking in Sep 2026 with 4.

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Pillow Talks · E276: How Do You Turn Your Partner On? (When You've Been Together For Years) · 3 Sep 2026 podcast

You can also reminisce on some of your favorite memories together, like some of your favorite sexual memories for some spicy flirting, having like inside jokes with each other. voice-verified

Like being kind of silly and playful and even making like dumb jokes about sex too. voice-verified

I know a lot of people like look down on that, but I think there is a place for like being kind of goofy about it. voice-verified

We make a lot of dumb jokes about sex. voice-verified

Dumb jokes about sex. voice-verified

Tip number five, start earlier. voice-verified

I think this is one of the most practical, like easily like quickly actionable items from our list here. voice-verified

But too many couples look at desire as like something that happens in the moment. voice-verified

So most of us initiate sex at the end of the night, like we're crawling into bed. voice-verified

At the end of the night, everybody's already brushed their teeth. voice-verified

Put your eye mask on. voice-verified

You crawl into bed and you're like, wanna do it? voice-verified

And your partner's like, No, I'm exhausted. voice-verified

It's the end of the night. voice-verified

I wanna go to sleep right now. voice-verified

Yeah, the idea of trying to get your partner turned on in the moment, like that exact moment that you're initiating, it's too much pressure. voice-verified

Maybe if you have a partner who has super spontaneous, you know, brain-based, physical-based desire first, it can work for them sometimes. voice-verified

But for the majority of people, if you're trying to initiate and get your partner turned on in that exact moment, like right before you want to have sex, it's way too voice-verified

Too fast. voice-verified

So you gotta start earlier in the day. voice-verified

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