Vanessa Marin

It feels exciting to open it up.

So it's the same kind of thing.

I mean, playing with toys can be fun too.

You know, there are definitely a lot of toys to experiment with in the bedroom.

Dirty talk is another great one.

We love encouraging couples to get more comfortable communicating during sex.

And again, this is another way that people go to extremes.

They think, dirty talk, like, oh, I'm going to have to sound like some cheesy porn star.

I don't want to, you know, be saying all these ridiculous, like, ma'am, you forgot your, you know, here's your pizza.

You forgot the payment for it, you know?

But I think the dirty talk, it doesn't have to be graphic and it doesn't have to be cheesy.

For me, dirty talk is all about finding your authentic voice in the bedroom.

So it's actually part of our membership for couples.

We have a whole Dirty Talk guide in there where we go through finding the specific words.

So even words for body parts.

Everybody has their own preferences.

People will say, oh, I really like that word.

Oh, I don't like that word.

So finding the specific words that you like or looking at examples and saying, yeah, it would sound really hot to me to hear that versus that one's a little too overboard for me.

So experimenting with that.