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Victor (Vic) Strecher

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Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 2

And invariably, they are more vital after they just finished a haiku and they all raise their hand.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 2

I want to read my haiku.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 2

So if you are burning out as an employee, or just generally in life, you might ask yourself, am I giving myself space?

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 2

Am I sleeping?

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 2

Am I present?

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 2

Am I active?

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 2

Am I creative?

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 2

And am I eating well?

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 2

And then over time,

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 2

Become a researcher of yourself and start asking yourself, are there certain letters there in space that are giving me even more energy?

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 2

For me personally, I found that being creative was the number one thing I could do to have more energy and get more control, self-control of myself.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 2

So I love that.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 2

Now, the second part of that question is if you have burned out like this person has and now they are seeking a new chapter in their life, that's a perfect time to start repurposing your life, going back and really looking

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 2

conducting that self-contemplation, that self-research, what we sometimes refer to as me-search, and asking yourself, what are the things that are important in my life?

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 2

You might ask yourself, who am I?

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 2

What is my identity?

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 2

And from that identity, I think I could start generating a purpose.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 2

And that can lead to then asking the question, are there certain skills that I need to generate to become more effective in this next phase of my life?

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 2

Absolutely.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 2

I mean, these are the things we've been told to do for, what, decades and decades, and yet very often we don't do them.