Vivian Tu

It's like suffocating you.

Yeah.

It's on your phone.

In terms of like, look what everyone else has and I don't have it and I can't afford it.

It takes over your nervous system.

You could be lonely and depressed by not having a relationship or have other challenges or not have a career.

But if you don't have your money, if you don't have harmony around it or some type of healthy relationship around money,

it really suffocates you.

It holds you back in a big way.

And again, I go back to the beginning of this conversation where you were just like, what good things happen to girls like me or something like that.

I think you have to really shift your mindset around it.

Even if you don't see the evidence yet,

that good things are happening to you.

Maybe they haven't happened to you, but at some point you have to shift and start thinking and speaking in a different way about yourself so you can start seeing the evidence in real life, even with small little acts that are happening to reinforce, look, good things do happen to me.

I just found a penny.

Good things happen to me.

Someone just smiled at me.

Good things happen to me.

Whatever it is, we've got to reinforce it.

No.