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I once got married and there were many people that didn't think that I should get married and I wouldn't have listened to them.

And instead of...

Oh, Amber.

Yeah, Amber was one of them.

And Amber, but you didn't really say much to me about it because I think when somebody is happy and they think they're making the right decision and it's a choice that they want to make, like you have to let them do it.

People have to be allowed to make their own mistakes.

And like, I made my own mistake.

It wasn't the end of the world.

It wasn't a brilliant thing to do.

But like,

It's fine.

Everything works out the way it is in the end.

And unless you know their relationship personally, which you don't seem to know, I don't think that you're in a good enough position to judge.

Yeah, I take your point.

But also like a really kind of pointed, revealing question would simply be, are you happy?

And if you are going to say something, I think you have to understand you're running the risk of potentially losing the friendship forever and creating a distance between yourself and herself.

If what you are saying is correct in the fact that there is an element of control there and in that she's completely transformed from who she used to be.

Obviously, she doesn't align with your values and your outlook on life.

But maybe this is what she wants.

You don't know that.