William Costello
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So she had an interview where she kind of revealed her, I wouldn't describe it as a cook fetish, but she kind of,
Was it not called Monopoly?
It's Monopoly.
Monopoly, well, that's a cool term.
Monopoly.
Yeah, so she basically described that she enjoys seeing her male partner fuck other women, that she's not into being with other men, and this is this very kind of salacious story.
And I think there's a number of things happening there is...
There is some evidence of mate copying that's much stronger in women.
The social proofing of other women's opinion of a guy is way more important to them than it is for men.
So let's say I was going out with someone that I was head over heels with and in love with and you said, oh no, she's not that beautiful.
It would have less of an effect on me than it would for a girl having all her girlfriends to say, no, he's not the one.
He's trash.
It's like, I don't care.
I can see.
So if a guy goes through into a club and he's surrounded by four women, some women are looking at that saying, there must be something.
Or if a guy doesn't look that good, but he has a really beautiful partner,
They're thinking there must be something, must have something going for him.
Yeah, absolutely.
And especially when too much physical attractiveness can actually be off-putting to a female partner.
They're like, oh, I don't want to have to make out him that hard and he's too obsessed with himself and too many women like him.