Xander Marin
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2,548 appearances
9 recordings
1 series
first heard Jul 2026
last heard 6d ago
Xander Marin’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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or being turned, you know, something that might turn them on in any given moment.
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But now that you've heard all of these different initiation styles, what you would actually say at any given random moment could be very different based on any of those.
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Is it something that is more connection?
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Is it something where it's like, where it's more you leading with how much you're desiring them?
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Or is it you leading with something more like playful?
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Sexy?
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Um, is it, you know, something like, hey, I wanna, I wanna take care of you tonight?
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Like this is sort of like peeling back the onion.
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You you we all think like, oh yeah, no, this sex stuff is supposed to be really simple.
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Like you just say something sexy or you wear something sexy, and that's that.
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But I think as you start to understand more and more about these kind of ways, different types that we are and different attributes that we have, all of a sudden it's like, oh yeah.
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No, there actually is a little more complexity in here than most people give credit for.
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And it's if we can just do a little bit of laid legwork to start to understand how we differ from our partner, all of a sudden it's like, oh, I could go into initiating sex or I could go into trying to turn my partner on in a way where I am.
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You know, I'm I can't say you're ever guaranteeing yourself success, but w you can raise the chances of success by so much by understanding these things.
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regardless of their desire type, regardless of their initiation style.
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You can use those things to help you with maybe tailoring the type of flirting or when to flirt, but God, so many of us forget about flirting, or it's like, oh, this is just something you do early on.
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does sex feel like so much work?
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Well, because all the things that lead up to it feel like work to you.
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So of course it feels like work.
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Yeah.
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