Xander Marin

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3,285 appearances 11 recordings 1 series first heard Jul 2026 last heard yesterday

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Pillow Talks · E276: How Do You Turn Your Partner On? (When You've Been Together For Years) · 3 Sep 2026 podcast

They're funny to us. podcast-host

Yeah. podcast-host

Right? podcast-host

But if you are a desire, if your partner is a desire me type and you're constantly making like that's what she said jokes. podcast-host

Your partner's probably gonna be like, all right, come on, like I like I wanna feel wanted. podcast-host

I don't want you to they might f actually feel like you're trivializing sex rather than actually wanting them. podcast-host

Or if your partner's a take care of me type, podcast-host

They might actually prefer you flirt or make kind of suggestive comments around taking care of stuff around the house for them or taking care of them in general. podcast-host

So, you know, maybe more flirtation around, oh, you want me to draw like a nice sexy bath for you? podcast-host

Or, oh, do you want me to podcast-host

Take the trash out with my shirt off or something like that. podcast-host

Something you know more along those lines might land better with them. podcast-host

So I think this is where, yeah, try to draw some hints from that. podcast-host

And and remember. podcast-host

Flirtation, similar to initiation, is the way that we would want someone to flirt with us, may not and is very likely not to be the way that your partner wants to be flirted with. podcast-host

So flirting is not about you don't flirt with your partner to get some personal enjoyment out of it. podcast-host

You are looking for the energy that gets created by the two of you from you doing that. podcast-host

You're trying to turn things up a notch within them. podcast-host

so that you can then feed off of that energy. podcast-host

So I think a lot of people get tripped up here and they go, oh well, it just doesn't feel authentic podcast-host

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