Xander Marin

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3,285 appearances 11 recordings 1 series first heard Jul 2026 last heard 2d ago

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Pillow Talks · E275: Reasonable or Ridiculous? Sex Quotas, Oral Every Time, and Dirty Talk Dealbreakers · 27 Aug 2026 podcast

So I think the typical pattern when this happens is that podcast-host

One person stops initiating because the other person is mean to them, is always saying no, is, you know, is doing something that doesn't feel good. podcast-host

But it's not that they just stop, it's that typically the person stops initiating without saying anything to the other person. podcast-host

It's more of a it's it's sort of like a test. podcast-host

Oh, okay, well, she's gonna be mean to me. podcast-host

I'm just gonna stop and see what she thinks about that. podcast-host

But I think if this is the situation that it typically is where it's sort of like he stops because he's like, Oh, well, she's never gonna say yeah, so let's let's wait, let's just stop initiating, wait and see how long. podcast-host

Yeah. podcast-host

I think that that is I I don't know if it's necessarily like an equal role, but you are playing a role. podcast-host

You're you're giving an unspoken test to your partner to see how long it's gonna be before they notice. podcast-host

And so you're actually both both of you are doing something kind of mean and underhanded. podcast-host

something sexier. podcast-host

I think another thing this is only if she is open to it, is what you could say is, you know, you know, in this in this first week that you are going to dabble your toes into initiation. podcast-host

Like podcast-host

Dip your toes. podcast-host

Oh, yeah, yeah. podcast-host

Dip your toes into podcast-host

Dip your toes back into the world of initiation. podcast-host

You could say you you could give a guarantee. podcast-host

Like I I will like I will commit to saying yes in any situation podcast-host

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