Xander Marin
speaker
3,285 appearances
11 recordings
1 series
first heard Jul 2026
last heard 2d ago
Xander Marin’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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recordings per month · last 12 monthsRecordings per month over the last 12 months — 11 in all, peaking in Sep 2026 with 4.
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It is important to them to have regular sex.
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Now it's not okay to be like, it has to be four times a week, otherwise, I'm gonna be unhappy.
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That that is unreasonable because life happens, things happen.
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People get sick, people get busy.
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It's not reasonable to be like, it has to be this number in any lesson.
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I will be disappointed.
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I will be frustrated.
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Whatever.
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I would try to get rid of that and focus instead on the quality and the regularity.
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If having regular sex is important to you, then that's something you need to find a way to communicate clearly to your partner.
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And ideally to really tie it to connection, because that is what sex is all about.
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Connection, feeling close, being able to be playful with your partner, being able to be vulnerable with your partner, talking about how important it is for you to have those regular touch points and then also be willing to be flexible and how what what could I do to contribute.
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to you being more open to this, to making more space for you.
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If 'cause this person is saying we we're really busy, we're stressed, all these things.
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So it's like, all right, if you are wanting more regularity and you are wanting more frequency, then what can you take responsibility for to try to free more of that time up for your partner?
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tiny pack on the deck?
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There's all Okay.
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It's
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say
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Ridiculous.
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