Xander Marin

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3,285 appearances 11 recordings 1 series first heard Jul 2026 last heard 3d ago

Xander Marin’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.

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Pillow Talks · E275: Reasonable or Ridiculous? Sex Quotas, Oral Every Time, and Dirty Talk Dealbreakers · 27 Aug 2026 podcast

I would like to do that as much as I am open to it and I'm not going to always be a hundred percent open to it every time. podcast-host

Open to it. podcast-host

I do think that it is worth you examining though, what is it that is making you not open to say podcast-host

twenty seconds of oral sex. podcast-host

Yeah. podcast-host

I mean I I I see why we do that because typically the distinguishing factor is like oral sex for a woman is you are stimulating the part that give that we know gives her the most pleasure versus for the man, yeah, you're stimulating the part that gives the most pleasure, but manual intercourse and oral all stimulate that same thing. podcast-host

There's no like, oh, it's a different part that is being stimulated. podcast-host

So that's slightly different. podcast-host

I do wonder podcast-host

though like you I don't think it most women who are saying I want oral are not necessarily saying I want any amount a any amount of time. podcast-host

It's more of a it's typically more of a, oh, I need about this long in order to get me to a certain level so that I can enjoy the rest of the experience. podcast-host

So I think that typically there it that one is a little more conditional where it's like, hey I need a certain amount of this so that I can get, you know podcast-host

So I can get to a certain place. podcast-host

So it it is a little different, but I do think that from a logical perspective, once you start flipping the genders, you're like, okay, yeah, that's really not so unreasonable. podcast-host

And hey, I would also think if this as an opportunity for you, is there something that you would like every single time? podcast-host

Would you like Oral every single time too? podcast-host

Would you like him to spend a couple of minutes fingering you? podcast-host

what is it that you would like? podcast-host

I this is an opportunity for you to say, Okay, I can see that that's really important to you. podcast-host

I've thought about it and I would like to do that as much as possible. podcast-host

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