Xander Marin
speaker
3,285 appearances
11 recordings
1 series
first heard Jul 2026
last heard 3d ago
Xander Marin’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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recordings per month · last 12 monthsRecordings per month over the last 12 months — 11 in all, peaking in Sep 2026 with 4.
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What is your what is your next best alternative to pussy?
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What would you like him to call your vagina
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dirty talk?
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Because if your answer is well, I'd rather him just not say anything about it, then I my concern is that that desire's coming from a sex negative, a shameful place.
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All in many ways been socialized to be very sex negative.
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We have to recognize though that living that out the rest of our lives is not beneficial to us or to our partner or to our future sex life.
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And so if your desire is, oh, I kind of just wish that he would never even mention anything about my genitals, I want him to do stuff to my genitals, but I don't want to have to talk about or say it because that's icky.
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that that is like yeah, that is you're kind of missing the point of sex.
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Um so if you don't have an alternative, then
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then there might be some work for you to do.
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It's an invitation for you to do some work on where that kind of sex negativity or shame is coming up for you and what can you do to to try to overcome that.
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It sounds like, if I'm reading between the lines, it sounds like he's been saying pussy a lot recently for a while.
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You can't stand it and yet you
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you don't you haven't said anything because you're concerned about making him feel bad or you're m you're concerned that he will stop dirty talking.
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Most of us want to engage in dirty talk because it is very hot and sexy and exciting to have an exchange with your partner, right?
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Like an an honest, vulnerable in the moment, a real exchange.
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It's not like I just want to say some shit and get off on that.
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It's like I want you to communicate back to me.
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I want you to be as turned on by it as I am.
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That's what dirty talk is all about.
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