Xander Marin

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3,285 appearances 11 recordings 1 series first heard Jul 2026 last heard 4d ago

Xander Marin’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.

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Pillow Talks · E274: Is it Normal to Not Orgasm During Sex? We Got Attacked for Talking About This · 20 Aug 2026 podcast

Or you'd hit the plateau and nothing would improve that. voice-verified

Yeah, but then and to be really clear for all the people listening, ones the when voice-verified

When you've had orgasms from vaginal penetration alone, no clitoral stimulation, no dir sorry, let me re rephrase that, no direct clitoral stimulation. voice-verified

Because surprise, surprise, people who are orgasming from penetration alone are actually still having some clitoral stimulation. voice-verified

But no direct clitoral stimulation, that probably happens like that happens like very rarely, maybe a couple of times a year. voice-verified

Because the reality is, is that when we have intercourse, we stimulate either me or you stimulates your clitoris at the same time. voice-verified

That's part of the that's just part of the experience. voice-verified

Then I imagine, I mean, what tell yeah, I'm I'm actually curious what it's like. voice-verified

Cause I I think that I feel like the pushback that a lot of women have on this, and perhaps a lot of men, do not a lot, but perhaps the men who do push back on this would feel this. voice-verified

I I think that there's this idea that, oh, well, if I'm having to touch myself, or even if my partner's having to touch me while they are while we're also having intercourse, that then somehow like voice-verified

my experience is more derived from the clitoral stimulation. voice-verified

So it's like, well what's like like what's the point of us even having the intercourse to begin with? voice-verified

But is it fair to say I I would imagine when I you know when I watch you voice-verified

I would am I it does seem like that once you add that clitoral stimulation voice-verified

your pleasure is like y you couldn't you couldn't really disentangle like is the pleasure coming from the penetration or is the pleasure coming from the clitoral stimulation? voice-verified

Like Yeah, because like if I were to just stop voice-verified

having sex, your level of pleasure would drop. voice-verified

pretty significantly. voice-verified

Like, you know, we you know, or like voice-verified

You know, we've we've had experiences where you're close to orgasm and then like my penis slips out or something, or like I'm like too tired in one position, I have to move, and that sets your timing back. voice-verified

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