Xander Marin

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3,285 appearances 11 recordings 1 series first heard Jul 2026 last heard 4d ago

Xander Marin’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.

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Pillow Talks · E274: Is it Normal to Not Orgasm During Sex? We Got Attacked for Talking About This · 20 Aug 2026 podcast

And so you might think, oh yeah, I'm having an orgasm from penetration, or I'm having an orgasm from my cervix being stimulated. voice-verified

Well, in reality, your the legs of your clitoris are. voice-verified

probably being stimulated somewhere in during the penetration. voice-verified

And that is what is actually giving you the orgasm, not actually, you know, the the cervix or the walls of the vagina. voice-verified

But imagine if you're someone that has, you know, that that prefers direct clitoral stimulation. voice-verified

Indirect stimulation is not going to do that much for you. voice-verified

And so you are much more likely to actually want to directly stimulate your clitoris. voice-verified

And so the problem is, you know, we end up getting a lot of these women who are sex educators or tantra specialists or pelvic floor PTs who may themselves voice-verified

Be able to achieve, you know, they're in that 15 to 20, like 15% of people that happen to be lucky enough to prefer a certain they'll prefer internal stimulation and have the ability to get that internal stimulation. voice-verified

And they're going, oh, well, it works for me, so it should work for you. voice-verified

Yeah. voice-verified

And all that says is I don't really understand the anatomy of this. voice-verified

I don't understand the science of it. voice-verified

I am just gonna tell people that because it works for me. voice-verified

It should work for you because I feel like spiritually evolved that if you just become spiritually evolved and work on it hard enough that this could be for you too, rather than being like, maybe I should, maybe I should feel grateful that I happen to like the the certain type of stimulation and have the anatomy that allows me to have this and realize that I'm lucky. voice-verified

That n most people don't have that and that voice-verified

By me opening my mouth and trying to tell people that they should be able to do the same thing as me, that like all I'm doing is actually damaging. voice-verified

Other people. voice-verified

You're setting women back. voice-verified

lucky if your ideal is that just penetration should be the only thing that we do. voice-verified

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