Zach Bauer
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But I mean, this is this is what we found.
You know, all of this material is predicated on I'm going to tell you exactly what to say and it'll work in every situation.
Now, the fact of the matter is, is that that's all wrong.
And what Rob and I realized, and when we went from a place where we were having trouble getting girls to a place where girls were, you know, basically suggesting that we go home together.
The difference was, was that we weren't playing to avoid those rejections, okay?
This is really important.
What we were doing was we were playing for the wins.
And the difference between this is the old numbers game.
That we weren't saying to girls worried about whether or not it was going to mess up.
We were saying things to girls with the hope that it would go well.
of what I'm going to be talking about and the system that I'm going to be giving you guys.
The first and most important piece of what it is that we're teaching right now and what it is that we're doing right now is called damage control.
of the matter is that no matter how good your line is or how good looking you are or how much money you have or whatever, there's going to be friction in an interaction.
If there's no friction in an interaction, then you have absolutely no emotional connection with this girl.