Zach Morris
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3,776 appearances
15 recordings
1 series
first heard Sep 2017
last heard Jul 2025
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And so right now, I'm just trying to relate.
I'm just trying to really hear you express these things and communicate myself in a way that
that you have the experience that you're being heard.
I can show you that I hear you, even if I disagree with you, right?
Like you're saying, even if, all right, this narrative you have about it all, I'm listening to, and I'm thinking to myself, like, this is totally not what's happening.
is like totally constructed in your mind.
I really want to help you see more clearly what might actually be going on.
That's the reasoning process.
And in the relating, I need to
To really hear the experience and hear the needs, which is below the surface of actually maybe directly what's being said.
So I think what you're talking about is this expression of the narrative, this experience that I'm having, but a lot of the times...
People, and especially young people, are going to be talking about that through a language that isn't actually really representative of their experience and representative of their needs.
It's going to be steeped in lots of evaluations, lots of subjectivities, and that's where this decoding happens.
So I think in the relating process, it's really a decoding of the communications we're hearing
And sort of putting that into, okay, what is this person sort of expressing that they're experiencing on emotional level?
What are they sort of saying that their needs are?
And how do I put that through, you know, really the nonviolent communication strainer, which is, you know, something we've talked about on other podcasts, but this idea that
these needs, these experiences, these are really sort of generalized to all of us.
And those are things I can connect with, even if I don't connect with the story that you have, which is how this person did you wrong, and that you need them to do this in order to feel okay, which exists completely outside of nonviolent communication practices.
What I'd really be hearing is, again, the overwhelm, the anxiety, the
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