Zack Bauer

And tell me it's all wrong.

Not focus on looks or money or age.

I mean, I swear to God, we've had students that are, you know, you see him walking around with the girls now.

And yeah, he's too fat for her.

And yeah, he's too old for her and too divorced or too, you know, whatever.

The difference is because instead of trying to get a girl attracted, you put me out in a bar, tell me to go try to get a girl attracted, I'm going to fail miserably.

Because I don't have the first idea about how to get a girl attracted who's not already attracted.

What I do know how to do is create an experience that every girl wants to be a part of and ends in having sex.

That's what we're moving towards right now.

But I want you guys to understand that this begins not with, you know, opening or conversation or getting her attracted.

It begins when you get her focused on you.

If you can hold a girl's full focus, then, you know, I mean, that's all it comes down to.

It gives you a very, very good stage that's been set for you to then transition this relationship back to the bedroom, okay?

So, like I said, the second piece, which is emotional investment.

Excuse me one second.

So basically, what's the difference between emotional investment and getting a girl attracted, okay?

Emotional investment is when a girl wants to find out more about you, when a girl's intrigued by you, when a girl likes the things that you're saying and she wants you to say more of them, when a girl enjoys your presence and will do things like tell her friends, oh, no, no, no, I'm fine, just go to the bar without me, because she wants to be around you.

I mean, we're really not aiming very high, are we?

Because you make her feel good, okay?

Now, this is a very, very simple thing to do.