Right before you turn someone down, guilt shows up first — and it's usually wrong about what happens next.Today's episode looks at why saying no feels so much like being unkind, even when you have every reason to decline. You'll hear what research says about how badly we misjudge other people's reactions, why simply being told "you're allowed to say no" doesn't actually help in the moment, and what does.By the end, you'll have a clearer read on where that pre-refusal dread actually comes from — and why it isn't a reliable guide. Today's Extra turns this into one sentence you can use the next time an ask lands on an already full day.Follow 7 Good Minutes for new episodes every day.Watch 7 Good Minutes on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@7goodminutes7 Good Minutes is presented by OCEANSCAPE and published by The Extraordinary Network.

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“What did the council decide on item 42?” — answered with the speaker and the moment.

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