Why Women Want Effort, “Girl Bosses” Ruined Dating, Samay Raina & Ranveer Allahbadia Controversy
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Why are women upset with their men?
what's up everybody welcome to flagrant i hope everybody had a wonderful valentine's day i posted something on instagram uh recently and women had quite the reaction to it i posted this on instagram not thinking it would get much 12 million views later it turns out women aren't that happy with us and by us i don't just mean alex mark akash and andrew i mean just men in general it seems like there's some frustration let's play the clip so that everybody has some context yeah Everything about effort. Like, why is the effort doesn't matter when I go to work? What is this? I want you to write a card. What are you talking about?
Write a card.
Explain to me the effort shit, right?
If your girl orders food for you or cooks food for you, which one means more?
I like it when she cooks, but if she was like, I'd rather just order and I'm totally cool with that. I just like the fact that she put, uh, she like. The reaction from women about this clip was absolutely insane. You know, we could have had a woman on the podcast, but that would go against our principles. So I think it's just up to the boys to figure out what is going on.
Are these women frustrated with us? It would appear so, dude. It would appear so. Yeah. Those are just the lonely ones celebrating Galentine's Day.
What is Galentine's Day?
The ones that they just hang out with their girls because they don't have an actual dance class.
Oh, so you're saying that there was an emotional state that they were in and they really wish a guy would go put out some effort.
I think there's also a lot of women who got shitty valentines.
Yeah.
Who are really driving this. One comment was like, he's 41 years old, mind you. And I wanted to be like, this is a long time ago.
We were late 30s. I still got a card I haven't written for my wife. And not only was it Valentine's, it was her 30th birthday. I killed it. I gave her a great fucking weekend. It was awesome. And that has nothing to do with the fact that I have an assistant now that I can outsource the effort to. That's what I would definitely suggest.
She didn't think it was weird that your handwriting was so nice all of a sudden? Who are these flowers from? Tessamy? I was like, me? I just say me no matter what is in the house. I did that. I got that. Who shit on the floor? Me. That was me.
Definitely wasn't Kiana. We hope. Okay? That's actually my suggestion, first of all. Get an assistant. Because all the thoughtful ideas that come to your head, but you're like, but then I got to do it. You can outsource to them.
Dude, I saw you walking out of the studio one day. Your assistant was like, hey, here's a birthday gift for your friend. And you're like, really? What is this? And she was like, they're the paddle shoes you mentioned. And I was like, oh, that's why you get them. Dude, stop snitching, man. Jason. Jason, that came from me. I don't care about effort. That touched his soul, bro. When I showed him them shoes, he was like shaking as he opened it.
Because I thought he was going to be like vibrators and dildos inside or something like that. But it was a real pair of paddle shoes. Anyway, I think it's worth to have this discussion. It seems as if, you know, women feel like we're not putting in the effort that we should be putting in.
Yeah. Yeah. I even saw a random TikTok recently after this conversation.
Yeah.
We were talking about it. And some girl was like, I can't even go on a date with a guy if he's not going to put in a reservation at a restaurant. Yes. She said, that's a red flag. If you're not going to make a reservation, we're not going on a date.
So this is interesting. You brought this up yesterday when we were discussing it. There are these things that have become very popular for women to talk about. Red flags. You said the ick.
How has the 'girl boss' movement affected women?
Yeah.
And all these things, I think, are really downstream from women wanting guys to put in effort. Yeah. right now here's where it gets interesting and we do need to bring in the girls for this so maybe grab them but um this is this is okay this is a kind of true thing women's greatest fear i believe is being alone men's greatest fear is being with a woman we don't want to be with yeah okay well you can couch the women one but i think they're also a little afraid of like getting murdered and stuff
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Chapters
8 chapters
1
Why are women upset with their men?
0:00–3:28
2
What does it mean to 'make an effort' in a relationship?
3:28
3
How has the 'girl boss' movement affected women?
2:47–10:18
4
What is the controversy surrounding Samay Raina and Ranveer Allahbadia?
10:18–12:29
5
How can the NBA All-Star weekend be improved?
12:29–19:23
6
How does dating differ in big cities versus small towns?
19:23–24:46
7
What are the challenges of modern dating apps?
24:46–29:28
8
How is marriage and alimony perceived in today's society?
29:28–2:02:15
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