Do I Have Anxious Attachment? 10 Signs to Know For Sure Part 1

This is part one of a two-part series where I share 10 signs of anxious attachment and what you can do to start creating more secure relationships.✨ In this episode, we’ll cover:The fear of abandonment—why it feels so real and how to pause before panic takes overOverthinking—why replaying conversations and “what-ifs” keeps you stuck in anxietyConstant reassurance seeking—how it sabotages trust in yourself and your relationshipsThe hidden beliefs behind these patterns (not being good enough, being “too much”)Tools to calm your nervous system when your anxious attachment is triggeredHow to begin rewriting your self-worth and love narratives so you can feel safe in relationships💡 Key Takeaways:Your brain is wired to tell stories rooted in fear—but you can learn to separate facts from anxious thoughts.Seeking reassurance may feel soothing, but it weakens self-trust. True safety comes from learning to regulate yourself.Overthinking and perfectionism are not signs of unworthiness—they’re signals that your anxious attachment is in the driver’s seat.With awareness and practice, you can teach your brain and body to become a safe place for all of your emotions.📌 Try This:Next time you feel fear of abandonment or panic: pause, take a sip of cold water, and label the sensation in your body before reacting.Write down your thoughts (a thought download) and separate facts from the “story” your brain is making up.Practice new self-talk: instead of “I’m not enough”, try “I feel fear AND I am capable of holding it. My worth is inherent.”✨ Remember: You are not broken. You are not too much. You are not stuck in anxious attachment forever. With the right tools, you can rewire your brain and create secure, loving relationships.📩 Work with Me: I offer a 12-week 1:1 coaching program using my Secure Method, where I help you calm your nervous system, rewire your thoughts, and step into healthier relationship habits.👉 Schedule a free 1-hour consultation—whether you want to explore coaching or just experience a sample session. 📧 Email me at [email protected] with your questions or podcast topic requests.Links and Resources:Get my free Guide: Calming Your Anxious Attachment Free 4 day video Training Being YOU doesn’t have to be scaryLinktree to all things happening now: https://linktr.ee/takingbackherbrainLet’s Connect:Follow me on instagram: @anxiousattachmentsolutionFollow me on Facebook: Anxious Attachment Solution Life Coach AmberFollow me on substack: @takingbacherbraincoachingShare your thoughts and experiences with the hashtag #anxiousattachmentsolution and tag @anxiousattachmentsolutionEmail me at [email protected] for a free one hour consultation

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