Alison Wood Brooks (on the science of conversation)
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Who is Alison Wood Brooks and what is her expertise?
Wondery Plus subscribers can listen to Armchair Expert early and ad-free right now. Join Wondery Plus in the Wondery app or on Apple Podcasts. Or you can listen for free wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome, welcome, welcome to Armchair Expert, Experts on Expert. I'm Dan Shepard and I'm joined by Lily Padman. Hi. Today we have Dr. Allison Wood-Brooks. She is a behavioral research scientist and professor at Harvard.
At Harvard. That's a very fancy name.
Harvard Business School.
That's right. HBS.
HBS. She has a new book out right now called Talk, The Science of Conversation and the Art of Being Ourselves. She is an incredibly good guest.
So fun. And I do think we take for granted conversation. We think we're just going to show up and be able to do it. I really, really like this in the context. I mean, in general, but dating, which we talk about a fair amount and why a lot of these are not very successful.
You actually put no time into planning how you're going to converse.
There's like real tricks for conversation.
Yeah. And it's not disingenuous to use them.
Yeah.
Also, she's an identical twin. Yeah. So we had a lot of fun twin chatter.
That part is very cool.
Further imploring us to get a twin expert.
Yeah, we really want that. Yeah. She's one of the guests that we have that is a teacher at a fancy school and their class is like so impacted. The most impacted, yes. People really want it.
People on a wait list. Yeah, it's one of these favorite classes.
Do you know I often, I have a recurring dream.
Okay.
That I am not finished, like everyone's finished work. With their classes, it's the last semester and I forgot to like put my classes in correctly. And now I'm behind and I'm gonna have to take all these extra classes to graduate. And then I'm also looking at the classes and I really want this specific class because it's like the fun class that everyone wants to take. I have this dream a lot.
I have half of that. I don't ever have the class I'm trying to take. Okay. I have the like, what happened? We're mid-semester. Have I gone to any classes? Yeah. There's a final. I wake up on set a lot where I'm directing something I haven't read. Right. I'm like, oh my God. It's ill-prepared anxiety.
But her class would be one in my dream.
You should add it. Yeah. You should incorporate it. Yeah. Please enjoy Alison Woodbrooks.
He's an armchair expert.
Most people who love Diet Coke will acknowledge it does seem to be a bit of an addiction.
Yeah, yeah, because it's a stimulant, right? Yeah. We cut through so many cases of Diet Coke at HBS, at Harvard, because so many of the faculty are ADHD and they're self-medicating. medicating in tiny doses. That makes sense.
Yeah. It's their over-the-counter Ritalin.
Yeah.
In addition to their real Ritalin. Although Diet Pepsi's becoming more of a thing. I don't know if you guys heard about the new trend. Say it. There's a song out called Diet Pepsi and Diet Pepsi sales are skyrocketing. Come on. Yeah, it's real. Who sings a song? She's a big...
I want to see a link to the... The data? Yeah.
It's real. Some people have converted from Diet Coke to Diet Pepsi. Oh, wow.
I wanted you to say that it was Britney Spears because she had that, like, amazing... I know. Remember the ad back in the day? She was so hot.
She was.
She was so gorge. I would love to see a resurgence. Get back in it. Britney Spears with the Diet Pepsi. She's the one bringing it back. That's what I want. Addison Rae. Addison Rae. Kind of a new gen Britney Spears, if we're being real.
I don't know that. Is that the case?
Yeah, it is.
It's funny you say that because you have a reference in the book. You chose an artist and I was like, that's a young artist.
Ariana Grande?
Yes, you talk about her video to describe context.
Yes. Look at you with your memory. Holy moly.
And I was like, wow, you have three children. I don't know your age.
I'm turning 40 next month.
Congratulations.
I am at a major inflection point in my life. You're hitting me at the right time. You're young.
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